If you don't think you're identified with your avatar then I dare you – I double dare you – to step into the Avatar Transformer at Botgirl's Identity Circus.
Zada Zenovka took what I thought was an NPSL idea I've been toying with for months and figured out how to make it work.
For all humanity's diverse experimentation with avatar forms, it is one thing to step into a new look that you choose; quite another to spin the wheel and take whatever comes your way. UnezzedRuth or LittleHobbit. AndiyAndrogyny or BettyBimbette.
Give it a try before your next social engagement and then show up in a random form. See what it feels like. If you dare.